All women are innately born with a very special skill. This is not to say they are in anyway superior or inferior but women can tell if a man is a decent nice guy or complete jerk. Some women can even tell if a relationship will be successful based on his hair type. To distinguish this, a man with a “cow lick”/”flip” would normally have a bad temper but a man with his hair down is usually calm and laid back. When men and women interact there are certain little things women look at that men don’t realize they are doing. Throughout my blogs, I will attempt to guide the average man into becoming the ultimate man. There are many perceptions, misconceptions, and mistakes that are formed and they will all be dissected. The first mistake that most men come across is trying hard to impress a woman. Most men try to impress women by them with numerous compliments. Although women do love compliments, a compliment should not be thrown around. Women tend to stop believing the man if he keeps complimenting her. Instead make her feel special by asking her questions about herself and make her the centerpiece. Most women are interested in getting to know the man, what he does in his free time, what he does for fun, and what he does for a living so she can get an overall impression of him. When you are with a woman don’t be stuck on yourself. Try to find out what type of woman she is; is she the type of woman that likes the simple man and can have friendly fun with or the type of women who like a secure, confident, and dominant guy. When guys go out with a girl they need to know how to have manners, be smart, and funny. A woman hates guys that curse, boring, and love to show off. The key is to be a little mysterious, the less you say the better.
While what I say is based on experience and there are no ultimate right or wrongs. Women are more insecure then they say they are. Some women don’t want a guy with too much baggage because it is a display of how insecure they really are. A lot of women would rather have a man that doesn’t have much to offer because if they break up it makes them more secure because they know they didn’t really lose much. However, if an Adonis type of a man breaks up with a woman, that woman will feel more hurt and heartbroken. The handsome, intelligent, and successful male will be more intimidating to the female. Usually women pick a guy they feel they can control. There is a misconception in this because women don’t want to tell them what to do or coordinate their life. They would just want the person they care for to realize the importance in their life. Another misconception is women are very bad expressing what they really mean; they know what they want to say but cannot ultimately show it.
All men and women are nervous when they are trying to get to know each other, but by the end of the day the man has to show a little more of his personality, show her a sensitive side, and something that makes the woman be with you because you are a truly good individual. The number one thing that attracts a woman is a man that respects others as well as himself, knows himself, and goal oriented.
While what I say is based on experience and there are no ultimate right or wrongs. Women are more insecure then they say they are. Some women don’t want a guy with too much baggage because it is a display of how insecure they really are. A lot of women would rather have a man that doesn’t have much to offer because if they break up it makes them more secure because they know they didn’t really lose much. However, if an Adonis type of a man breaks up with a woman, that woman will feel more hurt and heartbroken. The handsome, intelligent, and successful male will be more intimidating to the female. Usually women pick a guy they feel they can control. There is a misconception in this because women don’t want to tell them what to do or coordinate their life. They would just want the person they care for to realize the importance in their life. Another misconception is women are very bad expressing what they really mean; they know what they want to say but cannot ultimately show it.
All men and women are nervous when they are trying to get to know each other, but by the end of the day the man has to show a little more of his personality, show her a sensitive side, and something that makes the woman be with you because you are a truly good individual. The number one thing that attracts a woman is a man that respects others as well as himself, knows himself, and goal oriented.
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