Tuesday, February 19, 2008

EYES ARE THE WINDOW TO THE SOUL

The eyes are the window to the soul. It is the eyes that see what the mind can comprehend. Men and women alike both use the eye contact test. As I mentioned in my previous blogs, men are very nervous to approach a woman due to many uncertainties. The eye contact test is simple, when a man likes a woman, he should lock his eyes with her eyes. Even if she’s not looking at you just stare at her, it may sound weird but it is human nature. Subconsciously, the woman will glance your way, just to see who is around her. Invariably, both of you will lock eyes and when you do just smile at her. Her reaction will determine your next move, if she smiles back just approach and start a casual conversation but if she pays no mind to you just move on and don’t let her reaction bring you down.
If you happen to start a casual conversation look into her eyes to see if she is attracted to you. If her pupils become wider it is an indication she is attracted to you and is becoming excited. The dilated pupils are good to look at because it is an unconscious sign of attraction. It is something you will notice and become familiar with experience because there are many problems with dilated pupils, there are many factors that can affect the results.
To familiarize everyone, both men and women use these body language tests to determine attraction to each other. These body language tests are the vertical and horizontal eye tests. When making eye contact it is important to look at the eyes. These eye signals are very quick to miss so stay focused. If his/her eyes look downwards at the person it is a good sign. It is assumed that the person likes what they saw when looking at your face so they scope the rest of your body. Most women do this much quicker than most men so it is often missed. The horizontal scan comes after the vertical scan. The horizontal scan occurs when both parties are attracted. When it’s time to kiss look into their eyes and you will see their eyes going back and forth as they try to read you.

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