Friday, February 1, 2008

LISTEN TO HER HEART

Every girl would like to love or be loved. Love is much deeper than a physical relationship. The meaning of love transcends through the words of the heart. For every guy it is very difficult to approach a beautiful girl and win her heart. Most guys think love is just a physical relationship but for a girl it is a foundation in which they hope to find a true gentleman. The first step for a guy to win a girls heart begins with a good impression. The key is to make a good impression so she notices you. You don’t have to say much, just have a clean polished look. If you dress sloppy it’s usually a sign for arrogance and carelessness. If you really want to win a girls heart is to be a man of good habits. A gentleman should watch his language because impolite and filthy language is a sign of immaturity and a lower class stature. The girl will eventually notice you and you just have to let her gradually fall in love. The most important part of love is being romantic. The objective of the man should be to approach her in a romantic manner and create a special bond and not a physical relationship. So if you happen to catch her looking at you just come up to her and introduce yourself in a respectful polite manner.
Understanding and taking care of the girl’s heart you want to win is very important. Every girl wants to be understood, she wants to be adored, loves to be loved, and wants to be wanted. Once you establish a friendship it will allow you to be closer to the girl will help you understand her hobbies, interests, and her own personal style. Love is built upon friendships, being a good friend that she can turn to is what a girl ultimately wants. Don’t be afraid to be helpful and a positive light in her life try to bring the best qualities out of her. Make her feel special, listen to her every word, because these are the words of her heart. It is also a nice gesture for every gentleman to compliment a lady because every lady appreciates a compliment.
Tell her how you always think of her even when you try not to think about her. Try not to come off obsessive or crazy but just let her know in a smooth way that she is the only thing on your mind throughout the day. It is important for the guys to remember that if he doesn’t authentically mean these words, do not throw them out there. You exhibit yourself as a disrespectful liar and a jerk. In your everyday conversations try to make her laugh some girls admire a guy with a comfortable humoristic side. Be creative and try to keep her interest. Call her when she would least expect it and just make her feel special through the meaningful words of your heart.
Let her be in control when it comes to physical contact, try to have self control and take it slow. After a date take her home, be very respectful and wish her a sweet night. Being a gentleman displays how much you respect her and love her. Patience is the key to a girl’s heart and if a man understands this he will become more charming and attractive. Remember try not to be a jerk and mean to her prove to her that you’ll always be there for her to make her feel happy and loved. Let her be independent to make her decision and have trust being restrictive loosens the love and trust between you and her. By not lying to her, being there to listen, and holding her hand will win her heart.

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