GOOD GUYS DO FINISH LAST

For as long as I remember I was always known as “the nice guy.” I would be the guy that girls would talk to about their problems, boyfriends, looks, and school work. I was always the “big brother” that doesn’t want to see his “little sisters” hurt. I would never be considered for a date because when it came down to it the girls always liked the “jerk type” with the “bad boy” attitude. For some much unknown reason in the universe women are attracted to the “jerk type” that would ultimately end up damaging their emotional state of being. There is a drastic difference between a “jerk” and a “nice guy.” “Nice guys” would give women the world and everything in it, while a “jerk type” would lie, cheat, and use women to his own benefit. Being a “jerk type” works, but one raises the question, how can you continue being a jerk to the person you genuinely love and care for. Being very nasty, disinterested, and having a very sarcastic attitude towards women is for a very odd reason appealing to the female dynamic. However, I am not telling every “nice guy” to become a “jerk type” because it is demoralizing but the change has to come in attitude. The “nice guy” has to become self-assured and have confidence within himself. Although the “nice guy” is intelligent, respectful, funny, and knows what he wants in life, women like men, want someone that makes them feel special, excites them, and makes them laugh every day.