After hitting the books the whole school week, it is now Friday night and most of us college students go out, relax, and have fun, right? The club scene is not meant for everyone. It is for those willing to let it all hang out and have fun. “Clubbing” is a term that is often thrown around but very rarely done correct. My personal favorites are Icon, DNA, Abyss, Mirage, Euro Lounge, Pacha, Webster Hall, and Avalon. Any time one goes to a club, it is a must to dress up nice, the main objective is to look better than everyone else, to show you’re confident, somebody important, and so you stand out. Like most of my fellow club goers like to show up “fashionably late” I think it is best if you show up early because then you can see who comes in and with who they came in with so you get an idea. By observing how people interact you will get a sense of who is here for a free drink and who is here for a good time. When you’re in the club its key to laugh and talk with your friends. Make it look like you’re having more fun than you’re really having. Confidence will start to exude from you and girls/guys will start noticing that there is a positive vibe from you. The mental mindset when one enters a club has to have a clear head and not a set agenda. Most guys in general will go to clubs to pick up “chicks”, they think if they dance they will look stupid and no one will be attracted to them. Ironically, that is the exact opposite because girls want the outgoing and spontaneous guy when they go clubbing. If you’re there just to hold up the wall what is the point of going?
Once you have established you are here to have a good time make your way around the club and find a person (male or female) that has caught your eye. Never approach a person dancing on the stage in a club because those are the “attention needing” people. When you’re dancing and have a smile on your face make sure to be aware of your surroundings and which people are noticing you. When you have caught eyes with the person that has caught your attention, smile and wave at them. If they respond in the same manner, immediately approach them say “hi” in a friendly manner and dance with them. Never be afraid to assert yourself, simply if the person is receptive they will tell you about themselves. The key is to have a good time and the rest will follow. In the meantime, just keep laughing with your friends and keep clap your hands to the music.
Once you have established you are here to have a good time make your way around the club and find a person (male or female) that has caught your eye. Never approach a person dancing on the stage in a club because those are the “attention needing” people. When you’re dancing and have a smile on your face make sure to be aware of your surroundings and which people are noticing you. When you have caught eyes with the person that has caught your attention, smile and wave at them. If they respond in the same manner, immediately approach them say “hi” in a friendly manner and dance with them. Never be afraid to assert yourself, simply if the person is receptive they will tell you about themselves. The key is to have a good time and the rest will follow. In the meantime, just keep laughing with your friends and keep clap your hands to the music.
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